To create systems and solutions that demystify relationships so that anyone willing to put in the time and attention can build the relationship they want from wherever they are.
Everything we want in the world, comes through our relationships. And so there is no skill that is more valuable than to have happy and secure, stable relationships.
Yet most of us have had zero training in relationships. We’ve been given a bunch of rules, ideas and shoulds that are failing us.
It’s time to have a more honest conversation about relationships and create more clarity on how we have better relationships.
That there is nothing more important than relationships.
Everything we want in life comes through relationships. They are our gateway to everything outside of ourselves.
No relationship is harder than a romantic relationship. Your romantic relationship should be your sanctuary from the world. A cocoon of safety, support and love.
Unfortunately, that happens all too rarely. Instead our relationships become like our cars.
At first we’re all excited by it. Then we get used to it and barely notice it. Then we look around and see newer fancier cars. Soon, our car feels old and limited. Then we trade it in for a new one.
But it doesn’t have to be like that. After three decades of helping people work through challenges with their relationships I’ve noticed many common patterns. If you’re interested, I’d like to share what I’ve learned.
The Values That Drive Relationship GPS
Truth is the only lasting and secure basis for a relationship that can’t be rocked.
From understanding we can challenge, accept and harmonise with.
What is true can withstand any challenge. We challenge to test what is true.
Shame, guilt and fear are barriers to truth. We have to accept ourselves, others and our circumstances as they are..
We cannot effectively control or manipulate circumstances. We have to harmonise with Life and others.
what Is The Relationship GPS System?
The SatNav for your relationships
You don’t need to know everything about relationships. You only have to know the next steps you need to take to build the relationship you want or to make your existing relationship better.